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Morgen-gifu
UPON awakening after spending their first married
night together,
the Anglo-Saxon husband would present his new bride with her morgen-gifu
- literally, 'morning-gift'. This gift was hers to keep, in her own
right, for the rest of her life; neither divorce nor her husband's death
could take it from her. It might be jewellery - a string of pearls
or amber beads, silver or gold neck chains or brooches, a ring set with
precious lapis or garnets. Or it might be a grant of land, or even
a flock of sheep. In the morning they were truly wedded, and the
giving and acceptance of the morgen-gifu sealed their new bond with a loving
start to their married life. Let's make this ancient custom our own
again. |